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Hate and care

During my teenage years, my friends didn’t hesitate to argue. If I say something weird, I would always end up in a long conversation about it. Kids just don’t give up.

Then you grow up, you get more commitments and there are more TV shows to watch, so time becomes scarce. If I say something weird in my 30s, most people would silently think something and won’t argue. It might them being too polite. It might be they thinking that arguing is pointless. It might be that they simply don’t care.

Only the person who cares or hates you will tell you about your mistakes.

Last edited on Aug 23, 2019